• Monica has given me the confidence and education to better understand myself and to show up in my relationships as the best version of who I am. She pours her heart and soul into her work, taking time to genuinely care for every person she interacts with. Monica strikes a perfect balance between science and humanity, helping people feel both understood and more aware of their behaviors - chemically and emotionally. I deeply admire her and feel incredibly grateful to have learned from her wisdom. I couldn’t suggest her more!

    ~ Maggie Mitchell, Gphi Life Member @ Calpoly

  • I really appreciate Monica’s talk about intimacy and dating, especially when it came to bettering ourselves as men. Personally, I think it is important that young men learn how to interact with ladies in a respectful manner, especially when they are romantically interested in them. Monica’s speech so perfectly summarized how to come off as respectful, interesting, and genuine while not being self-centered. I appreciate the deep dive into the woman’s perspective, and I admire her openness and encouragement to seek more help if any of us felt like we needed it. Thank you!

    ~ Roman Arora, Sigma Pi Life Member @ Calpoly

  • Monica’s talk completely exceeded my expectations — again. This is now the second time I’ve been able to witness her speak on everything from feelings, to sex, to family relations, and both times I’ve been blown away. She is informative, yet honest, and very comforting. Monica is well educated and has given me the best advice I’ve ever received. She has a way of talking about important topics that are sometimes difficult to speak on but does it in a way that makes them real and approachable. No questions were off limits and with that I felt heard and safe. I left feeling more educated and confident in myself and what I want in life moving forward. For anyone wanting to speak with Monica, do it!

    ~Taylor Mackie, Gphi Life Member @ Calpoly

Most of us don’t have the opportunity to have meaningful and important conversations around dating, sexuality and mate selection. I DO THIS. With intention and purpose with young people that are thirsty for the conversation.

Speaking to college age young adults in dorms, Greek Houses, Clubs to educate, answer questions, guide and discuss the topics they are still unclear on how to navigate is my passion. Contact me to come to your University and begin the dialogue and the fun!

  • Attending Monica’s talk was empowering, eye opening, and so much fun. She made everyone feel so comfortable and created such a safe, judgment free space to open up about things we don’t usually get the chance to talk about. She was so approachable and genuine, and it ended up being a life changing conversation I didn’t even know I needed!! I left feeling way more confident about what I want in life and so excited for everything ahead. I honestly feel like everyone should be required to see someone like her because her conversations are truly life changing. Monica is the best!!

    ~ Makenna Vogul,, Gphi Life Member @ Calpoly

  • I absolutely loved your talk that you gave us a couple weekends ago. Sex and relationships are topics that not a lot of people feel super comfortable talking about, but they're very important and can be challenging to navigate (especially throughout college). I especially liked your advice when it came to talking to someone/getting to know them--truly listening to them instead of waiting for your turn to talk. That's something I always try to think about and it's honestly really rewarding when you care and listen to what someone has to say, and even ask questions to get them to tell you more. You are the best and I always look forward to your yearly talk at our chapter meeting!

    ~ Alex Musco, Sigma Pi Life Member @ Calpoly

  • For me, the information in your presentation was super informative over a topic that is sometimes very stigmatized and doesn't get talked about enough, especially in college where it is a definite time of change. The information regarding how to be confident and how to ask questions on a date is very helpful and even I applied it last night! Your energy and tone were very much appreciated and fun for the chapter!

    ~ Trevor Marshall Sleet, Sigma Pi Life Member @ Calpoly